Bullying At Work - When A 'bit Of Fun' Becomes A Problem

No matter how hard you try, you can't get alongin the workplace, (particularly if it involves physical
with everyone. A 'personality clash' with a workor witnessed verbal abuse) the matter has to be
colleague or even just someone else's idea of 'ataken seriously and dealt with quickly.
bit of fun' can quickly escalate into a situation thatTaking it further It can be frightening to pursue a
can result in one person feeling victimised. Soharassment or discrimination case at work - you
when does a 'bit of fun' become something moremay be in fear of your job or receiving a bad
sinister?reference or reputation as a 'trouble-maker'. But
The legal definition: Bullying can encompass a wideyou have rights, and one of those is to work in a
range of general definitions, but you cannot makesafe environment where you can feel at ease
a legal claim directly about bullying as such.with your co-workers. If you are being bullied at
However, complaints can be made under lawswork, the first thing to do is to talk it over with
covering discrimination and harassment.your supervisor or, if you prefer, an impartial third
Examples of behaviour that could be constitutedparty such as a Union representative or the
as 'bullying' include:abuse;physical or verbalAdvisory, Conciliation and Arbitration Service
violence;humiliation; andundermining someone's(better known as ACAS). If you want to keep
confidence.the initial problem completely separate from your
This can manifest as:working environment, you can also talk to your
Being constantly 'picked on'.local Citizen's Advice Bureau, who can provide you
Humiliated in front of colleagues.with free and impartial advice.
Unfairly passed over for promotion or deniedYour employer will have a grievance procedure,
training opportunities.which should be outlined in detail in your contract
Physical or verbal abuse.of employment. Follow this in the first instance - if
Electronic 'cyber-bullying' (bullying by email or text).you do proceed with legal action at a later date, it
However, behaviour defined as bullying, unlessis important to show that you have taken every
clearly and unmistakably so, can be easilystep in accordance with your contract to resolve
misinterpreted. If you've been passed over forthe issue. If the situation is still unresolved after
promotion, it is wise to check the reasons whyfollowing these steps, you may be left with no
before you start claiming that it is a symptom ofalternative other than to go to an Employment
bullying by a superior or boss.tribunal.
Some workplaces are by their very nature, a littleBullying is an unacceptable practice and has no
more demanding than others are. Particularly inplace in any environment, let alone the workplace.
highly stressed environments, so-called 'horse-play'The most important thing is to ensure that it
or verbal sparring can often be a method ofdoes not go unresolved and that others do not
reducing the stress levels within the workplace.end up suffering at the hands of workplace bullies.
What you see as bullying may be unintentional orBullies are invariably cowardly, and calling them to
just that 'bit of fun' taken a little too far. Inaccount for their actions usually resolves the
situations like this, it is often quickly resolvedsituation. But if you are being bullied, do not feel
merely by a process of arbitration between youthat you have to suffer in silence for the sake of
and your work colleagues and, if necessary, via ayour job. There is help available and you should
third party such as a Union representative ortake advantage of it at the earliest possible
supervisor. But if there is a clear case of bullyingopportunity.