Poker Gender Part III - Can "acting Like a Macho" Be Genderless?

Machismo is defined by Wikipedia as "atake advantage of this.
prominently exhibited or excessive masculinity."Getting personal about blinds and weak hands.
This expression is naturally associated with men,Once a good player figures out the macho
but as a dominant aspect of human culture, somepattern and starts attacking, machos get
women have adopted its traits. When playingoffended and the personal drama starts, insulting
poker, both women and men can suffer if theyothers or complaining of unfair dealing.
apply a prominently macho strategy, which is notChallenging players for heads-up matches. This is
advisable.the most violent action you can propose in a
"Macho" poker stands on a basis of a fewpoker game. What follows is a duel against a
commandments, here described by author andcooler-headed player which may include a display
player Alan Schoonmaker:of fancy moves that will ultimately put the
- "You must have enough confidence in yourmacho's money in the hands of the other player.
judgment to act decisively.Taking revenge. The thirst for making others
- You must take stands to prevent aggressivesuffer in a poker game usually blinds macho
players from running over you.players to their own mistakes, leaving them broke
- You must bet and raise to protect your handsmore often than not.
and get the full value from them.Playing expert or big brother. Machos stimulate
- You must have enough cockiness to create atheir ego with criticism or lectures to other
strong image."players, but what they are really doing is scaring
However, some players have taken those pokerthe fish away or educating them, both bad
principles too far, and instead of increasing theirstrategies.
bankroll, they harm it. Shoonmaker lists someHiding their failures. A typical macho act is
dangers of poker machismo that can leavecovering their messes to protect their ego; what
players (both male and female) empty-handed.they don't understand is they are not letting
Playing unaffordable games. A characteristic ofthemselves look at their mistakes and learning
machismo is having something to prove all thefrom them.
time. This ego-driven energy makes some playersSchoonmaker has some recommendations for
get involved in poker games they cannot affordmacho players who are now suffering from their
financially or psychologically, which results inactions and ready to make a change:
devastating loses and no learning experiences.1- Show people what a wonder you are at places
Attempting to beat more powerful opponents. Another than casinos, where it will not only cost you
innate trait of machos is the fact that thy cannotyour dignity but also your money.
accept the existence of players better than2- Catch your destructive ego-tripping by thinking
themselves. Machos try to prove they are alwaysabout the reasons why you engage in any of the
better than everybody else, which more thanpreviously discussed behaviours: most of the time
often results in humiliation when they have toyou will discover you have wrong reasons for
empty their pockets to their "inferior" opponents.acting a certain way and you can actually start
Playing bad hands. Some macho players thinkchanging your macho ways.
they can just play any hand by bluffing and3- Focus on learning from others rather than on
expect a good result, which is a fallacy, sinceshowing off or getting others to admire you;
good players only risk their funds when they havepoker is about money, not people.
a large edge, not a large ego.Machismo is definitely not the best path for
Overplaying bad hands. A macho way of kicking itanybody; it can only assure to maintain personal
up a notch is proving they are big gamblers wheninsecurities and ignorance in people's relationship
they have a bad hand, which sets them up aswith gender as well as in their relationship with
ideal victims for good players who notice andpoker.